First things first.. what is stress? It is the body’s response to the demands that are made on it. Chemicals are released into the blood when the body reacts to what is going on around them that is stressful. We experience stress in times of danger and the body responds by releasing these chemicals which give you more energy and strength. During these times, stress can be quite helpful. What we must be on the look out for relates to if your stress is the result of a response to an emotional event and there’s no outlet to release this extra energy.
We need to look out for bad stress. Did you know that millions of Americans suffer from stress each year?
- Stress can contribute to heart disease, high blood pressure, and strokes.
- You are more likely to catch colds.
- Stress can lead to alcoholism, obesity, drug addiction, cigarette use, depression, and other harmful behaviors
- 3 out of 4 people suffer from high levels of stress at least twice a month .
- ¼ of all drugs prescribed in the United States go to the treatment of stress.
Up to 50% of primary caregivers experience significant psychological stress. This can lead to serious health and psychological problems. Be aware of certain symptoms:
Denial Anger Social Withdrawal
Anxiety Depression Exhaustion Sleeplessness
Irritability Lack of Concentration Health Problems
I know at different stages I’ve felt or experienced all of these symptoms. I now know that they were a result of the undue stress that I was under.
What can you do to minimize the pressures you may be feeling?
Engage in self care. Self care is the act of engaging in your own personal health care maintenance. Make an effort to take care of yourself spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally. Do nice things for yourself and realize that it is important that you put yourself first. Relinquish the need to feel guilty about putting your needs ahead of others. Realize that by not taking care of yourself you will not survive. Often times chronic and acute illnesses have roots tied to the stress in our lives. Taking care of yourself is not a selfish act. It is necessary for your well being.
Attached please find the following Stress Management Plan that I received from a stress management workshop for caregivers. It will help you identify what stresses you out and help you pay attention to how you feel when you are stressed. Take note of things that you can do to help you relax. The more you reduce your stress the better you will feel and your quality of life will greatly improve!